My son and I read a lot together.. I think if you are a dad , the second most important thing you can do for your kids is read to them -(I will address the MOST important thing in a later entry here 😉 … There are many reasons for this ,but mainly , for me – it’s just something he and I get to do. = Father/son time… You can’t replace the value of the time you give your kids , trust me I know this first hand … There will never be time for “make up time” in the future , if you don’t make the time now. Being a preacher , I get pulled in a lot of different directions at odd hours – not only do you work all week on sermons ,class lessons and bibles studies with others , but you are also a counselor to those who need it , a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.. Its’ the most demanding job I have ever have and I love it – but I would never trade being “The Best Preacher in the World” for “Worst Father Ever”… Balance is key and so reading with him is that balance .It does me good ,and it does him good – Therefore if one plus one equals two – it must be GOOD.
One of the things we really enjoy reading is comic books. For the most part we stick to The Batman story lines , especially The Robin story line.. We love that there are 4 of them who have all become heroes in their own right , trained by the “Best of the Best” – which also serves as a great metaphor for fathers training their sons to be men . For this reason ,among others , I’m convinced ,boys need heroes. As a growing boy , your imagination plays a primary role in developing your own identity . It helps shape your ideals and perspectives – to help the weak and stop the evil of the world.. I realize full well , that this is also what the bible teaches so couple that knowledge with the imagination of a 6-year-old boy ? What you get then is an unstoppable force that will grow with him as he grows , and becomes his character. Heroism or Altruism is what is at the core of every good hero – it’s selflessness personified .. and it flies in the face of all who promote humanism and the survival of the fittest. If survival of the fittest were true , there would be NO HEROES… Think about it.
A world with no heroes would be hard to imagine…but what about a world with no enemies? That’s actually how life is in the beginning – we aren’t born with enemies.. They are something we create over the course of our lives due to our beliefs , our convictions and what we are willing to fight for.. To you and I ,this makes sense…This is the world we live in because it is the world we have chosen to allow to exist. We have allowed it to exist because ultimately , we are SELFISH. This might be a little oversimplified but it goes kind of like -” We want what we want …and we want you to want it too.. and if you don’t ,then we are enemies” … So how can we know what want is good or not? How can we know if what we want is right or not? How can we know if we are standing up for the right things? ISN’T THERE A STANDARD SOMEWHERE ,WITH THESE THINGS WRITTEN IN IT?… (Maybe you have picked up on my sarcasm?)
But to a 6-year-old boy , the only enemies he worries about are the ones he battles in the backyard and the ones we read about our comic books. .. The idea of enemies actually being real was completely foreign to my son until recently..
One night while we preparing dinner , the news had been left on and while I don’t remember the exact topic of discussion , there was an angry mob burning The American Flag and screaming “Death to America”. Like most things with Kole , he thought about this for a while before saying anything but that night at comic time , he brought it up. “Why do those people hate us Daddy?”… “What people”?… “You know on the T.V”… After a few moments of thought , I finally remembered. The fact that it took me that long to remember what he was talking about should speak volumes to us all just how numbed we are to much of the evil in this world ,but not Kole..it clearly bothered him.. “Oh , those people” I responded , “They think we are wrong about a lot of things” … “What things” he said… “Like what we believe about God ,the Bible and Jesus… and the way people act in America “… after a very short pause for thought he asked the $40,000 dollar question. With total and complete sincerity he asked me – “Are they RIGHT?”… A few seconds pass… “No , son , not about everything. There is no doubt in my mind that the Bible is the Word of God , and I believe everything that is said in it. So no we are not wrong about what we believe about God”… What about the other thing? you know they way people act in America?”… “They may be right on a few of those point son ,but we don’t live like that”…”but why doesn’t everybody else? – would that mean that we would have fewer enemies”… I don’t know all the “why’s” that people have for not living like the bible teaches us to live son , I just know that they have their excuses and for them that’s enough..” “But doesn’t that mean that they are also God’s enemy?”… ” It does” I replied quietly….
He waited for about a minute and then said “Well that’s not very smart… I don’t ever want enemies..especially not God , cause he could blow up your town , or something!”…. At this point , all I could do was laugh!!! “Yes indeed son , he could”…
I love my son’s heart.. I love that it bothers him when something isn’t right , and he wants to fix it… That he doesn’t want anyone to be enemies with each other or God..But , I know that very desire within him will create enemies in his life . Standing for the right always will.. Jesus said in John 15:18 “that if the world hates us , it’s because it hated him first”… I hope these words will comfort my son as he grows into a man…and I hope he will stay true to his roots – his hero boots – and remember the time of “No Enemies”